Debate erupts over outing etiquette for singles over 40 — 5ch: “Even the supermarket’s a no-go, that’s straight-up out”

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The thread kicked off with a post wondering whether singles over 40 stick out awkwardly among couples and families when they go out on weekends. Opinions split over whether the neighborhood supermarket is fine while shopping malls are off-limits, and it escalated into a full-blown spat between married and single posters.

1Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:16:08.31ID:ID:LHcyhM0S0
Can't help it, they look suspicious
2Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:16:46.36ID:0kH/iwbj0
A 40-something single's weekend
6Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:21:51.90ID:gtPJ3g5X0
Well, I'm careful about where I go out
I try to keep my distance
7Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:23:45.53ID:VV1bldUM0
You're about to reach the age where your own spit lands back on your own face (an idiom for "karma's coming"), and you're still stirring the pot?
13Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:27:24.55ID:Sd3PMjI+0
>>7
By "about to," you're probably picturing something like 33 to 38, but

everyone's already married by that age 😅
8Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:24:29.15ID:Sd3PMjI+0
>>6
There are definitely some no-go spots when it comes to going out, yeah
12Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:27:10.78ID:gtPJ3g5X0
>>8
Grocery shopping at the local supermarket should be fine
I'm not going to a shopping mall though
15Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:28:00.17ID:Sd3PMjI+0
>>12
Nah, even the supermarket's a no-go

That's straight-up out
17Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:29:01.64ID:Gnet+sdy0
>>12
If you're single, the 100-yen Lawson (a discount convenience store chain) is the way to go
19Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:30:31.71ID:YU3et4F+0
36Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:48:07.08ID:ZrW+EY3/0
>>19
Looks like I could win that one on weight alone
22Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:32:15.44ID:vTCKuzQK0
>>13
But you're single too lol
27Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:37:19.79ID:Ga6p5eBJ0
>>22
I'm married, though
28Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:40:36.63ID:vzNBh6Qg0
>>27
Lol, salty singles
It's fun and free, don't be so bitter about it lol
29Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:41:36.92ID:1caMtlTH0
>>27
That's a different ID (post ID, meaning that's not the same person)
33Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:46:08.83ID:Ga6p5eBJ0
>>28
Well of course you'd get salty if being single gets treated as pathetic

Though I'm married myself
50Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:52:36.64ID:zi/GajwM0
>>33
Real married people realize being married isn't actually a big deal, so they wouldn't say something like that
52Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:54:31.39ID:6fXfnQcW0
>>50
My social credibility went up, though
55Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:55:37.77ID:ajHFr9yE0
>>50
My wife
makes fun of
the grubby singles who come to the supermarket
35Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:47:59.07ID:36SCIGB+0
I'm married too, y'know
44Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:50:36.51ID:Ga6p5eBJ0
>>35
A little further along than my kid, month-wise

Must be tough hunting for baby gear right now,
but let's do our best together!!!

Same school year for our kids!
53Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:54:55.75ID:LNT9TXN+0
It's not really about being single — it's just middle-aged people walking around alone, right?
57Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:56:00.43ID:ajHFr9yE0
>>53
Depends on the place
59Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:57:07.75ID:ajHFr9yE0
>>53
Nah, they make fun of guys hanging around together
or the scruffy-looking ones
63Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 17:59:37.01ID:1TI+dKxy0
>>55
That's literally you, though
65Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 18:00:08.99ID:ajHFr9yE0
>>63
That's way off base
66Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 18:00:41.13ID:ajHFr9yE0
>>63
"That's way off base," huh? What's with
that presumptuous assumption of yours
109Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 18:15:18.65ID:KXpnaB410
A warning from your single senpai

117Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 18:17:24.05ID:zCiQoJid0
That's NanJ (this 5ch board) for you — anyone can become married with kids here, just by typing it
118Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 18:18:59.10ID:ajHFr9yE0
>>117
That's some serious presumptuous
assuming there — way off base
121Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 18:19:42.05ID:Ga6p5eBJ0
>>117
"Everyone's lying,
everyone's actually single"

— that's what you've gotta tell yourself,
since the truth's inconvenient
129Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 18:22:30.28ID:ajHFr9yE0
>>117
You've got no eye for this, do you
145Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 18:26:44.24ID:Ku4hnTa+0
Wife: "What is with this guy…"
146Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 18:27:23.74ID:ajHFr9yE0
Yome (嫁): originally refers to a son's wife, though in some rural areas it's used to mean one's own wife. Okusan (奥さん): a term widely used in casual conversation among close acquaintances.
>>145
166Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 18:38:14.11ID:ZUfllQgH0
>>163
Then prove you're married or a couple
with your ID showing
though you'll probably just dodge it anyway
169Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 18:39:37.19ID:EksvLpeF0
>>166
Don't get so heated about it lol
way too hot lol
170Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 18:39:58.86ID:ZUfllQgH0
>>169
Not yet? An Instagram or X account works too
hurry up
172Anonymous2026/08/21(金) 18:41:15.93ID:ZUfllQgH0
>>169
Write the ID by hand, though
since you could just doctor a found image

*This article is excerpted and summarized from the 5ch (Livegalileo/”Nandemo Jikkyo G”) thread “The fact that singles over 40 creep out couples and families on their days off.”

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