Is Keeping Your Hat On at Restaurants Bad Manners? 5ch: “I’ll Take It Off in a Private Room”

From our other sites

The story

A 5ch thread sparked debate over people who eat at restaurants without taking off their hats. Many backed a line-drawing rule — “restaurants count as public space, so you take it off once you’re in a private room” — while others flatly insisted “wearing a hat indoors is just wrong, period.” The two camps never found common ground. Plenty of posters also chimed in with personal reasons for keeping their hats on, from hiding thinning hair to covering up bad bed-head.

What people said

1AnonymousSep 30, 2026 14:15
That kind of thing makes people question how you were raised.
2AnonymousSep 30, 2026 14:15
I'm not on TV often enough for anyone to bother changing the channel over it, sorry.
7AnonymousSep 30, 2026 14:21
None of your business, honestly.
Some people have medical conditions too.
10AnonymousSep 30, 2026 14:25
I kept mine on too, back when my hair was long.
13AnonymousSep 30, 2026 14:30
I'm a balding middle-aged guy and I don't take my hat off either.
Restaurants count as public space, no different from outdoors.
I'll take it off if I'm in a private room though.
51AnonymousSep 30, 2026 15:14
That's exactly the point of Re: #13.
Train stations and trains count as indoors too, but nobody takes their hat off there, right?
Same at hospitals — the waiting room is public space so keeping your hat on is fine, but manners say you take it off once you step into the exam room.
15AnonymousSep 30, 2026 14:31
Not taking your hat off face-to-face with someone is rude and shows bad manners, I'd say — but when you're just eating, who cares?
16AnonymousSep 30, 2026 14:32
I keep my hat on whether I'm eating out or at the movies.
17AnonymousSep 30, 2026 14:32
Forget eating — wearing a hat indoors at all is just dumb.
19AnonymousSep 30, 2026 14:34
Sounds like you're just going for the "unkempt" look, huh —
it's a hat to hide bed-head after all.
23AnonymousSep 30, 2026 14:39
Honestly the only place I've ever seen it is McDonald's.
26AnonymousSep 30, 2026 14:42
You guys don't take your hats off in front of your oshi either, do you? (oshi = your favorite idol/celebrity)
30AnonymousSep 30, 2026 14:49
Once you start lecturing people over trivial stuff like Re: #1, that's proof you've turned into an old man.
32AnonymousSep 30, 2026 14:51
Right now I'm just sitting alone in my room wearing an "Islamic watch cap" (a small skullcap-style beanie), reading this thread like a lone wolf.
37AnonymousSep 30, 2026 15:02
Re: #32
Yeah, the "Islamic watch cap" is great — it doesn't take up much space.
33AnonymousSep 30, 2026 14:54
Turning something this trivial into affiliate clickbait is worse manners than any hat.
35AnonymousSep 30, 2026 15:00
I've worn a hat in restaurants for over 20 years and not once has anyone called it a manners violation — not staff, not other customers.
Plenty of other customers wear hats too, and I've never seen anyone act like it bothered them.
38AnonymousSep 30, 2026 15:02
I eat out something like 200 times a year, and I've never once seen some idiot eating with their hat on.
43AnonymousSep 30, 2026 15:06
Sounds like someone who worries that much about everyone else's every little move is living a pretty exhausting life.
44AnonymousSep 30, 2026 15:07
To answer seriously: one reason I wear a hat is that without it, loose hairs sometimes flutter down onto my food.
45AnonymousSep 30, 2026 15:08
More and more young people these days just can't show any sympathy for bald guys.
46AnonymousSep 30, 2026 15:08
The kind of hat Suzuki Yoshiko wears on G1 race day.
47AnonymousSep 30, 2026 15:09
I've never once seen a sign at a restaurant saying "please remove your hat."
Realistically, that kind of rule probably doesn't exist anywhere.
48AnonymousSep 30, 2026 15:12
I get that you just want to bash people who eat with their hats on. But what are you actually going to do about it?
There are people eating at restaurants with their hats on by the thousands.
49AnonymousSep 30, 2026 15:13
If it were a place with a dress code, sure, but otherwise who cares?
There are people in there wearing tracksuits and shorts too.
55AnonymousSep 30, 2026 15:17
People raised poor get weirdly obsessed with manners the rare times they treat themselves.

Background and Key Points of the Debate

There’s no official rule dictating whether hats should come off indoors. As one reply pointed out, nobody has ever actually seen a sign saying so — it’s always just been a matter of custom, repeated as hearsay. The view that kept winning support throughout the thread drew a line between spaces: “restaurants count as public space, the same as train stations or trains — the real rule is to take your hat off once you step into a private room.” Against that stood the opposing camp, insisting flatly that “wearing a hat indoors is wrong, period,” and the two sides never reached an agreement. The original thread’s title used a slang term aimed at women, but most of the actual posts weren’t gender-specific at all, citing personal reasons like hiding thinning hair or dealing with bed-head and frizzy hair. The real fault line in the debate was about place, not gender — indoors versus outdoors, private room versus public space. Note that some posts containing personal insults or discriminatory language toward specific individuals have been excluded from this article.

※This article is excerpted and summarized from the 5ch (Hello! Project board) thread “Aren’t the women (the original uses “mansan,” a mocking 5ch slang term for women) who eat at restaurants without taking off their hats out of their minds?“

Comments

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *