3 Months at the Gym, Bench Maxed at 25kg — 5ch: ‘Even a Grade-Schooler Could Lift That’

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The story

When the thread starter posted that after three months at the gym, their bench press limit was still just 25kg, 5ch users reacted with a flood of astonished comments like “that’s a weight even a grade-schooler could lift” and “there must be some kind of medical issue.” The poster, who is 171cm and 65kg, said they go to the gym three times a week and also walk four times a week, but other participants pointed out that beginners typically see much bigger gains in three months, and some questioned the efficiency of the 10-reps-times-3-sets approach itself. Meanwhile, longtime lifters offered concrete advice, noting that sticking with the same load lets the body adapt and progress stall — turning the thread into more than just mockery.

What people said

1AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:19
No talent for this, huh?
13AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:21
Re: #11
Makes me wonder if I'm just weak as a living creature
14AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:21
Re: #13
It's not 'wonder if' — it just is
17AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:21
Even a kid who doesn't exercise at all can barely manage 25kg, so I'm guessing there's some kind of underlying health issue
20AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:22
Re: #17
No way…
I'm gonna cry
24AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:23
25kg? Even a grade-schooler could probably lift that
26AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:23
Re: #24
No way

Somebody bring me a source on this
Am I disabled or something?
30AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:24
25kg is basically just the bar's weight, isn't it…
34AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:25
Re: #30
The bar alone is 20kg, you know
42AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:27
Oh, so that's the weight you can barely lift once?
I'm doing 10 reps x 3 sets
54AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:30
Re: #42
That approach isn't very efficient
59AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:31
Re: #43
Normally 'bench weight' means the max you can lift for one rep
For reference, if you can do 25kg for 24 reps straight, that works out to roughly enough strength to lift 40kg for one rep
61AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:32
Re: #59
Wow, you really know your stuff
Guess 40kg's out of reach then
60AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:31
That's gotta be fake
25kg is basically just the bar's weight
Never seen anyone do it with just 2.5kg plates on each side
62AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:32
Re: #60
That's literally me
Putting 2.5kg plates on the bar
66AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:34
25kg… that's a level where I'd worry whether you can even function in daily life
Can you even do a single push-up?
74AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:37
Re: #66
If you're really at this level, your upper arm probably isn't even 30cm around — sounds like you might actually be sick
73AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:36
If 25kg is really your max after 3 months, you should just quit the gym
You're wasting your money
You're probably just going because you figured 'maybe going to the gym will make me popular,' right? Some kind of horny motive?
80AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:39
Re: #73
I'm doing it for self-improvement
76AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:37
Never trained a day in my life but I used to just carry 25kg sacks of raw materials around no problem
81AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:39
Re: #76
People back in the day used to carry 60kg rice sacks
78AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:38
Might be worth having someone watch your form and give you some coaching
84AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:39
Re: #78
Get a trainer? That's kind of intimidating
My elbows start hurting
86AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:41
The /nanj/ crowd (5ch's sports-discussion board, known for its genetically blessed regulars) is seriously packed with guys built like that
25kg is brutal enough for me as it is
93AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:42
Re: #86
25kg? That's not even middle-schooler level, you'd probably lose to a grade-schooler…
87AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:41
I was hitting a wall at 80kg and about to cry, but seeing OP gave me some confidence
97AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:43
Re: #87
Try doing 5×5 with bench twice a week
That'll get you up to 120kg
90AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:41
25kg has gotta be an usomatsu (obviously exaggerated internet sob story)
If you're serious, are you like nothing but skin and bones?
94AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:42
Re: #90
I'm 171cm and 65kg
92AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:42
I'm 177cm and was a skinny 53kg — had a complex about it and used to go to the gym
First time I tried, I lifted 100kg and the instructor practically begged me to take up combat sports…
My grip strength was already 70kg, which I was kind of proud of
98AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:43
Re: #92
If you really lifted 100kg right off the bat with that build, no wonder they wanted to put you in boxing or something
95AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:43
Everyone on /nanj/ has such a twisted personality, this is probably just an usomatsu too
103AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:45
Re: #95
With bench press, pretty much anyone can hit about 1.5x their bodyweight within half a year
100AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:44
A beginner starting at 20kg, training 3 times a week for 3 months, and only being at 25kg now — that's pretty slow progress
You should seriously change up your routine
Your muscles have probably just adapted to the stimulus
Most beginners would be lifting roughly double that weight after the same amount of time
102AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:44
Re: #100
Right?
No matter how you slice it, you should be at 40kg by now
104AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:46
Why's an unemployed guy only going 3 times a week?
Go all 7 days
106AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:47
Re: #104
The other 4 days I'm doing 40 minutes of walking for weight loss
113AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:49
Re: #106
Dieting with your height and weight, huh…
118AnonymousAug 31, 2026 18:50
Re: #106
You've got 18 free hours a day and you're only doing 40 minutes?
162AnonymousAug 31, 2026 19:16
There might be something to the 'not enough load' theory
But taking it slow and steady is my style
I'm gonna keep at it until I can breeze through 25kg for 10 reps x 3 sets 👍
166AnonymousAug 31, 2026 19:18
Re: #162
That probably won't change no matter how long you keep at it
Your body's adapted to the load, so you won't get any stronger
168AnonymousAug 31, 2026 19:18
Re: #162
Once your muscles adapt to the stimulus you'll plateau fast
Better to vary the load instead of sticking with the same weight

Background and Key Points of This Discussion

In bench press terminology, the weight usually refers to the max you can barely lift for a single rep — which is different from a weight you can handle for multiple reps, like 10 reps x 3 sets (this distinction underlies the calculation in comment #59). It’s said that even beginners commonly reach around 1 to 1.5 times their bodyweight within a few months, which is the benchmark behind why commenters saw 25kg as low. Also, as touched on in comments #166 and #168, “plateauing” — where muscles adapt to the same weight and routine, causing progress to stall — is a common phenomenon in strength training, and is said to require changing up form or programming. The comments about “illness” or “being sick” in the thread are less factual claims and more part of the exaggeration-heavy teasing culture of the board; it’s worth noting no actual medical diagnosis was involved.

*This article is compiled as an excerpt/summary of the 5ch (Nanimo Jikkyo G) thread “I’ve been going to the gym for 3 months and 25kg is my limit on bench press.”

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