“There’s No Job I Want Back Home”: Young Women Are Fleeing Rural Japan — 5ch Says “You’ll Just Become a Rent Slave”

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A “Population Strategy Forum,” where governors from three Hokuriku prefectures and experts were set to discuss countermeasures for population decline, was abruptly switched to an online-only format after a bomb threat was made against the venue. Ren Yamamoto of the Regional Women’s Project cited “no jobs they want” and “pressure to marry” as reasons young women leave their hometowns. The 5ch thread that followed saw a clash between posters arguing that moving to the city just means a poor life of high rent and non-regular employment, and those pointing to low wages, car-ownership costs, and gender gaps in rural areas — sparking a debate over whether the city or the countryside is actually easier to live in.

“There’s no job I want back home.” “I feel pressure to get married.” These are the voices of women leaving their hometowns. As population decline continues, a “Population Strategy Forum” was held online to discuss how to build communities that young people and women will actually choose to live in.

At the forum, which was hastily switched to an online broadcast after a bomb threat was made against the venue, governors from the three Hokuriku prefectures and experts exchanged views.

During the forum, Ren Yamamoto of the “Regional Women’s Project” — which interviews young women about their outflow from rural areas to the greater Tokyo region and makes policy proposals to the national government and local municipalities — cited a lack of desirable jobs and pressure around marriage and childbirth as factors behind young women leaving rural areas.

Source: news.yahoo.co.jp / Original article here

What people said

26AnonymousNov 10, 2026 22:10
Even if you move to Tokyo, you'll just end up poor.
39AnonymousNov 10, 2026 22:22
Unless you've got a national license like nursing, pharmacy, or medicine, going to the city just means you'll end up as someone's prey.
It's not a place soft enough to survive on guts alone.
You'll end up selling your body and that's that.
I just wish people would live a little smarter.
110AnonymousNov 11, 2026 01:21
Re: #39
Even so, doing elder care or cleaning work in Tokyo is probably still better for them.
Because out in the countryside, the middle-aged and elderly are just waiting to work young women to the bone as free slave labor.
48AnonymousNov 10, 2026 22:35
It's not just women leaving, men are too — why single out women?
51AnonymousNov 10, 2026 22:38
Re: #48
Because the outflow rate is higher for women, which leaves a surplus of men back home.
50AnonymousNov 10, 2026 22:38
Either way, keeping around women who have no intention of marrying just makes them dead weight — isn't it better if they leave?
52AnonymousNov 10, 2026 22:41
Re: #50
You'd better not say that.
Fukuoka is where women from all over Kyushu converge —
apart from Tokyo and Fukuoka, everywhere else is going to disappear sooner rather than later.
53AnonymousNov 10, 2026 22:42
Sure, there's no shortage of jobs once you get to Tokyo,
but rent's high too — all that's really waiting is a poor life, a far cry from the dream of glamorous city living.
71AnonymousNov 10, 2026 23:16
Re: #53
You don't strictly have to live in central Tokyo.
Also, online everyone talks like "Tokyo" means the central six wards, but even within the 23 wards, places like Kameari or Koiwa are pretty cheap.
83AnonymousNov 10, 2026 23:41
Re: #53
No matter how cheap rent is in rural areas, you can't live without a car, so you're stuck paying its upkeep on top of that — and on top of THAT, the only jobs available pay a take-home in the low hundred-thousands a month.
In the "low-status men" corner of X (Twitter), someone said even full-time regular employment as a caregiver in Akita only brings a monthly take-home of around ¥160,000.
139AnonymousNov 11, 2026 03:04
Re: #53
Cheap rent just gets canceled out by the cost of buying and maintaining a car.
Better to have a job market that guarantees both pay and variety.
59AnonymousNov 10, 2026 22:46
Wanting to escape marriage pressure is fine and all,
but please don't go marriage-hunting after your prime years and then end up needing fertility treatment.
106AnonymousNov 11, 2026 00:45
Re: #59
Fertility treatment is covered by insurance now, you know.
61AnonymousNov 10, 2026 22:48
Sexual harassment is just normal in the countryside. Most people there still think like it's 1935.
63AnonymousNov 10, 2026 22:49
Re: #61
Women are just as bad there too.
65AnonymousNov 10, 2026 22:59
Various media keep overselling how glamorous Tokyo is,
so of course country kids who grew up smelling like dirt end up idolizing it.
66AnonymousNov 10, 2026 23:11
Re: #65
I think morning TV dramas (asadora) do the same thing — the lead is always a woman who moves to the big city, finds happiness there, and then for some reason moves back home.
It's basically become a cliché that she has to go to the big city at least once.
69AnonymousNov 10, 2026 23:15
Re: #65
But what's actually waiting in Tokyo is a poor life in a cheap apartment.
73AnonymousNov 10, 2026 23:20
If you stay in the countryside it's nothing but low-paid men.
Low pay would be fine if they were good-looking, but there are too few good-looking guys, so you end up not finding anyone anyway.
85AnonymousNov 10, 2026 23:47
Re: #73
Even 8 years into full-time regular employment as a caregiver in Akita, the monthly take-home is ¥160,000.
On that salary, finding a spouse is out of the question — just surviving on your own is already a struggle.
74AnonymousNov 10, 2026 23:20
Re: #71
Even so, I doubt a young rural woman with no real education or work history can earn enough to live comfortably.
76AnonymousNov 10, 2026 23:27
Re: #74
In the vast majority of cases it still ends up better than the countryside.
Since there's so little housing stock out there, rent in rural areas isn't actually all that cheap either, and in Hokuriku utility bills run high too.
5ch posters (nerā) mostly don't drink and absolutely hate packed trains, so most of them think cars are just plain convenient — but a lot of women aren't confident drivers.
89AnonymousNov 10, 2026 23:54
The men who stay in their hometowns are mostly bottom-tier high school grads anyway.
91AnonymousNov 10, 2026 23:56
Re: #85
There's no way you can rent a place on your own and keep a car on a ¥160,000 take-home.
143AnonymousNov 11, 2026 03:38
If there's no job you want, even moving to Tokyo just means you end up in non-regular employment there too.
Then around age 30 you move back in with your parents and go full feminist.
Happens a lot in Chiba too.
152AnonymousNov 11, 2026 05:31
Re: #143
In rural areas there are basically zero jobs that pay enough to save money, even as a full-time regular employee.
On top of that, there's hardly any number or variety of jobs.
And it's inconvenient besides.
153AnonymousNov 11, 2026 05:48
Re: #152
So does that mean everyone in rural areas has zero savings? In that case they normally shouldn't be able to own a house or a car either, right?
Guess they're all living in dirt-cheap wooden apartments and walking everywhere — impressive, rural folks (lol).
155AnonymousNov 11, 2026 05:51
Re: #153
"People in rural areas" = just old men, right (lol)
Are there even jobs out there that let women be financially independent and earn more than in the city? (lol)
157AnonymousNov 11, 2026 05:53
Re: #155
Tokyo actually has a higher aging rate.
At least look at the data before you say stuff like that…
People like you are exactly the type who fall for conspiracy theories right away.
161AnonymousNov 11, 2026 05:55
Re: #157
Show me the data then (lol)
162AnonymousNov 11, 2026 05:57
Re: #157
Also, are you just going to completely ignore "Are there even jobs out there that let women be financially independent and earn more than in the city? (lol)"??? (lol)
156AnonymousNov 11, 2026 05:51
Re: #152
Disposable income is actually lower in Tokyo than in rural areas.
There are way more poor people there than in rural areas too.
160AnonymousNov 11, 2026 05:55
Re: #156
Even if you bring in a bit more money, you just end up a rent slave.
It's basically like working just to feed your landlord.

And then there's all the patience the commute demands (lol) — a total waste.
164AnonymousNov 11, 2026 05:59
Re: #160
If it's all supposedly "swallowed up by rent," then why don't young women just live in rural areas instead? lmaooooo
188AnonymousNov 11, 2026 06:40
Re: #160
> The city has entertainment, chances to meet people, and cultural options

In your younger years, life outside of work matters too.

City
* Hobby events
* Shopping and restaurants
* Concerts and live shows
* Meeting a wide variety of people
* Lessons and places to socialize

Countryside
* Natural surroundings
* Spacious housing
* Quiet living
* Local community
* A car-centered lifestyle

Which one makes you happier depends on the person.
But for someone who wants to experience a wide range of work, hobbies, and romance in their 20s, the convenience of the city can be worth more than what it costs in rent.

Background and key points of the debate

The “lack of jobs” and “pressure to marry” cited by the forum are points frequently raised in discussions of population decline, where the share of young women moving from rural areas to cities is said to exceed that of men. The figure that came up in the thread — “a ¥160,000 take-home for a caregiving job in Akita” — is based on one poster’s personal experience, not official wage statistics, so it’s worth treating with caution. Claims like “disposable income is actually lower in Tokyo” or “there are more poor people in rural areas” can also look very different depending on which numbers are cherry-picked to favor the city or the countryside, so neither side can be said to be simply right. Where the thread’s opinions really split was over whether the city or the countryside wins out on real cost of living — including rent and car-maintenance costs — and how to weigh the economic standing and attitudes of the men who stay behind in rural areas.

*This article is excerpted and summarized from the 5ch (News Flash+) thread ““There’s no job I want back home,” “I feel pressure to marry” — young women leaving rural areas, Population Strategy Forum held in three Hokuriku prefectures.”

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