More Workers Calling Their Boss “-San” Instead of Job Title — 5ch: “Using Titles Sounds Like a Cabaret Club Tout”

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The story

A national survey on the Japanese language released by the Agency for Cultural Affairs on October 2 found that more people are addressing their workplace superiors by attaching “san” (the all-purpose honorific, like Mr./Ms.) to their name rather than using their job title. On 5ch, some asked “What else would you call them — surely not with no honorific at all?”, while others took a favorable view, saying it reflects “a society aiming to downplay hierarchy.” Still others were puzzled, arguing that “using the title shows more respect” or asking “what do you even call a boss who’s been demoted?” With no single correct answer, opinions clashed.

More People Calling Their Boss “San” Instead of a Title; Only 13.1% Knew the Original Meaning of “Himotoku” — National Language Survey (Yomiuri Shimbun Online) – Yahoo! News

Published 10/3 (Sat) 5:00 AM JST

A growing number of subordinates are addressing their workplace superiors by attaching “san” to their surname rather than using their job title, according to the Agency for Cultural Affairs’ fiscal 2025 survey on the Japanese language, released on October 2. (By Keito Ehara)

Source: news.yahoo.co.jp / Original article here

What people said

4AnonymousOct 3, 2026 09:47
What else are you supposed to call them? Surely not with no honorific at all?
22AnonymousOct 3, 2026 09:53
Re: #4
Section Chief So-and-so
Department Manager So-and-so
Supervisor So-and-so
Team Leader So-and-so
29AnonymousOct 3, 2026 09:55
Re: #4
Like, say there's a company president named Tanaka — even a brand-new hire would call him "Tanaka-san" instead of "President." Japan is aiming for a society that doesn't make people conscious of hierarchy.
74AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:03
Re: #4
Like in Gundam, where everyone just calls each other by first name.
8AnonymousOct 3, 2026 09:48
So what are you even supposed to call a boss who got demoted?
11AnonymousOct 3, 2026 09:49
Re: #8
"San" works fine for that.
24AnonymousOct 3, 2026 09:53
Re: #8
I've seen plenty of cases at big companies — not my own employer — where a change of president got department heads, section chiefs, team leaders, even executives fired or busted down to regular/non-regular staff. So at the big-company subsidiary I moved to, I just use "san" on everyone from day one. (´・ω・`)
41AnonymousOct 3, 2026 09:57
Re: #8
That's exactly why "san" is the easy option.

There weren't many demoted people around me, but if you're at the level where you'd get demoted, you probably can't stick around anyway.
21AnonymousOct 3, 2026 09:52
Please, just call me "-kun"… (a more casual, junior-sounding honorific)
142AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:18
Re: #21
You should be the one calling yourself "-kun" then.
144AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:18
Re: #21
Can't do that to a guy.
25AnonymousOct 3, 2026 09:53
I stay unemployed specifically so I never get dragged into pointless debates like this.
27AnonymousOct 3, 2026 09:54
Re: #25
Must be exhausting, constantly digging up lame excuses for your own life.
30AnonymousOct 3, 2026 09:55
Calling someone by their title really does sound like a cabaret club tout hollering for customers.
120AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:13
Re: #30
At a cabaret club it's more like "Oh, Mr. President~!"
45AnonymousOct 3, 2026 09:58
Overseas reaction: "Japanese has way too many self-referring pronouns!"
55AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:00
Re: #45
Apparently for foreigners it's easier this way — no titles to memorize, just slap "san" on everyone and you're done.
62AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:01
Thing is, I can't remember people's names, so this is a real problem for me.
69AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:02
Re: #62
Couldn't you just go with "Mister" or something?
163AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:23
Re: #62
"Department Manager-san" works fine, no?
73AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:02
"Section Chief!" "President!" "Department Manager!" — barking out just the title like that is basically the same as calling someone by their bare surname with zero honorific.
90AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:06
Re: #73
So what, are we supposed to say "Section Chief-sama," "President-dono," "Department Manager-sensei"?
93AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:07
I use "san" for everyone below section-chief rank. For section chief and above, though, I only ever use the title. It's a pain being a permanent rank-and-filer when both your boss and their title keep changing on you.
97AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:08
Re: #93
Calling everyone by first name only is just standard practice when dealing with American companies. (´・ω・`)
122AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:13
For what it's worth, I use titles because it's more respectful. If someone tells me "just call me so-and-so," I'll switch to that. But I've never once seen someone use "san" on every rank from the start. Though I guess it'd fly at some small startup where people work in T-shirts.
145AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:19
Re: #122
Respectful? Reducing someone to a label counts as respect?
154AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:20
Re: #145
It's about keeping things proper — drawing a clean line between work and personal.
126AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:14
A board director might suddenly spring "Say the president's name!" on you. Stammer out a "(;-ω-) uhh…" in that moment and you can kiss any promotion goodbye forever.
129AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:14
Re: #126
So is "director" basically code for "enforcer"? Sounds like something Jagi would do. (Wordplay: 取締役/"director" shares kanji with 取り締まり, "crackdown/enforcement"; Jagi is a brutal enforcer-type villain from Fist of the North Star.)
130AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:15
Re: #126
"Director" (torishimariyaku) is just a Companies Act legal term — nobody uses it internally. Internally it'd be "senior managing director" or "department manager" or whatever.
128AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:14
At a factory I used to work at, everyone except the plant manager just got called "san."
136AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:16
Re: #128
Well sure, that's what happens when there's no section-chief or supervisor position to begin with.
138AnonymousOct 3, 2026 10:16
Re: #128
At small factories out in the countryside, the "president" is sometimes just the boss's wife — gets confusing.

Background and Key Points of This Topic

This survey is part of the Agency for Cultural Affairs’ annual “Public Opinion Survey on the Japanese Language.” The same release also covered other shifts in word usage — for instance, only 13.1% of respondents gave the original meaning of “himotoku” (to explain by tracing something back to its source). What actually divided opinion on the thread wasn’t whether using “san” is right or wrong, but whether there’s a workable alternative. Those sticking with titles cited practical reasons — “it gets awkward when someone’s title changes after a demotion or transfer,” “‘director’ (torishimariyaku) isn’t even a title used internally.” Those fine with “san” cited benefits like “it avoids emphasizing hierarchy” and “it’s easier to remember people’s names.” Easy to overlook: the survey itself only shows an “increasing trend” — it doesn’t claim “san” has become the mainstream norm.

*This article excerpts and summarizes the 5ch (News Speed+) thread “More People Calling Their Boss “San”… National Language Survey.”

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