Milk Boy’s Utsumi Confesses ‘Major Incident’ Over How to Write ‘様’ — 5channers: ‘I Was Wrong Too’

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Comedy duo Milk Boy’s Takashi Utsumi caused a stir after saying on an ABC Radio program that he’d uncovered a “major incident” over how to write the kanji “様” (used for honorifics like “Mr./Mrs.”), calling it shocking after “living 40 years” without noticing. Utsumi said he’d spent 40 years writing the right-hand part — which looks like the kana “ハ” — as two separate strokes (the "separate style"), when in fact Japanese elementary schools have taught a connected, single-stroke version (the "straight-through style") as standard since the 1950s. On 5ch, people shared similar experiences — “I only noticed looking at my kid’s workbook,” “I wrote it the separate way until I was 30” — and opinions split over which way is actually correct.

Tue, Nov 4, 2:59 PM

Comedy duo Milk Boy appeared on ABC Radio’s “Milk Boy’s Tuesday, Isn’t It!” (airing Tuesdays at noon) on the 3rd. Takashi Utsumi (40) revealed that something shocking had happened involving a certain kanji.

At the top of the show, Utsumi opened with “There’s something I want you all to hear,” then said, “Something really shocking happened last night… It’s a major incident after living 40 years. I really want everyone to hear this,” turning to his partner Takashi Komaba and co-host, announcer Chihiro Washio.

Source: news.yahoo.co.jp / Read the original article here

What people said

5AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:25
The separate style, huh
Seems like it'd be awkward to write
7AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:27
Honestly, both ways are correct
8AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:27
I get that
For me it was "卸" (wholesale)
I always split it into "ケ" and "正"
38AnonymousNov 4, 2026 16:10
Re: #8
Liar, lol

I wrote it separate at first too, but I caught it and fixed it early
I think I noticed back in elementary school
9AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:28
Just tried writing it — turns out I write it separate too
10AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:28
I learned it separate too
Noticed it was wrong while helping my kid with homework, but it's too late to fix now
11AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:29
I figure it's fine as long as it reads right to whoever's looking at it
Like 女→くノ一 (the kanji "女" for woman breaks down into く+ノ+一, which is literally where the word "kunoichi" for female ninja comes from) — easy mnemonic, and as long as it still looks like the character, who cares
Stop flexing about stroke order differences, lol

"Kokera-otoshi" (a theater-opening ceremony, written 杮)
vs. eating a persimmon, "kaki" (柿)
↑
Nobody can tell 杮 and 柿 apart anyway
12AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:30
I don't think I ever split it like that
But I have definitely learned wrong stroke order
Like with 減 (decrease) — I write the horizontal stroke on the right side first
13AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:30
I always get anxious about whether the top of 県 (prefecture) is 目 (eye) or 日 (sun)
15AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:31
How do you even write 求 (seek)?
That little stroke poking out at the top has to be a short dot first, otherwise it looks off
16AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:32
I was taught the separate style
My teacher was born before the war
18AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:35
The old-style character is separate, so you can't call it flat-out wrong
Calling it "wrong" might be the real mistake here
19AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:35
Re: #1
Probably some elementary school teacher back in the day taught it the separate way, so people ended up learning the stroke order differently from today

The kanji "必" (as in 必然/inevitable, 必要/necessary) seems to have changed too. My grandfather wrote 心 (heart) first, then added a ノ stroke to finish. What I was taught in elementary school was: write the top dot first, then draw an X, then add dots on the left and right to finish. These days, what I learned in elementary school is treated as the correct way
37AnonymousNov 4, 2026 16:10
Re: #19
Wait, really? I thought 心 then ノ was correct
When did the stroke order change?
20AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:36
> Apparently schools have taught the "straight-through" style since the 1950s, while the old-style character used the "separate" style

He's 40 — did he really learn the old-style form? Anyway, that reminds me of the exchange over the character "専" in the manga Jukushi Ben-chan
32AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:59
Re: #20
Maybe his parents or a calligraphy teacher corrected him to the old style, and nobody ever called it out since
21AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:37
It's not wrong. Don't badmouth the elementary school teacher
22AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:39
興 (prosper/interest) — I remember some foreigner saying they liked this kanji
Apparently it looks like a building across a road to them
76AnonymousNov 4, 2026 17:46
Re: #22
> Apparently it looks like a building across a road

No idea what you're talking about, lol
23AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:39
It's not calligraphy class, so a little leeway is fine
24AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:40
Just wrote it without thinking and it came out straight-through
But weren't there other kanji with the same separate-style thing going on?
25AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:48
You really ought to follow the stroke order used in classical calligraphy (Wang Xizhi, Yan Zhenqing, Kukai, etc.)
That stroke order is what gave rise to Japan's hiragana culture in the first place
39AnonymousNov 4, 2026 16:11
Re: #25
If we're going that far, shouldn't we trace it all the way back to oracle bone script stroke order?
Oracle bone script doesn't even have stroke order
That's just how writing systems work
26AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:50
I seriously get this — I was shocked too seeing my kid's elementary school workbook
I'm sure my mix-up comes from the kanji "義" (righteousness)
Same with "集" (gather) — because of "気" (ki/spirit), I always turn the second stroke into a horizontal line, and I just can't unlearn it now
27AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:53
Wrote it separate until I was about 30
28AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:54
Stroke order is supposed to be taught in class
Guess you either weren't listening or were out sick that day
33AnonymousNov 4, 2026 15:59
I had the stroke order wrong for 𰻞 too (the infamously complicated "biáng" character from biangbiang noodles)
40AnonymousNov 4, 2026 16:11
Re: #33
Surprised that character even converts on a smartphone keyboard without turning into garbled text
35AnonymousNov 4, 2026 16:02
Kind of like the 柿 (kaki, persimmon) vs. 杮 (kokera) thing?
41AnonymousNov 4, 2026 16:14
I was in elementary school in the '70s-'80s, and I remember being taught the separate style
I always figured the straight-through version was some kind of shortcut — figured people were just being lazy

Now that it's come up and I tried writing it myself, I honestly can't tell anymore which way I actually write it, lol
43AnonymousNov 4, 2026 16:21
It's common to drift into your own personal style without realizing it — I also get fuzzy on whether a kanji has 日 (sun) or 目 (eye) inside it
Well, can't help it. I just fudge it. I have zero confidence in my stroke order anymore
44AnonymousNov 4, 2026 16:21
Because I opened this thread,
I can no longer write 様
I've got the yips for writing 様
46AnonymousNov 4, 2026 16:25
Re: #39
True
Wang Xizhi is the one who turned oracle bone script into calligraphy as an art form, so it makes sense to follow his stroke order
At least for us Japanese who use kanji and classical Chinese writing
47AnonymousNov 4, 2026 16:28
Changing the subject, but next year is the Year of the Sheep. Sheep were actually imported into Japan long ago, but the climate didn't suit them,
so they never really took hold — apparently they only caught on in the Meiji era, making them a fairly recent import
It's strange that an animal like that ended up in the zodiac — there's even a theory that the "sheep" in the zodiac was actually a goat. o/
49AnonymousNov 4, 2026 16:32
Vietnam's zodiac differs from Japan's — the Year of the Rabbit there is the Year of the Cat, and the Year of the Sheep is the Year of the Goat (@^^)/~~~
50AnonymousNov 4, 2026 16:32
Feels like it doesn't matter as long as the reader gets it
Stroke order and all that — who cares
53AnonymousNov 4, 2026 16:35
Some kids these days write 様 as a shorthand for the old-style character 樣 — how should schools grade that?
→ A modern Japanese-language dilemma over old-style characters with different stroke counts: "both are correct" vs. "wrong for teaching purposes"
https://togetter.com/li/2273188
54AnonymousNov 4, 2026 16:39
It's the separate style
Wait, wasn't it "sewage"?
63AnonymousNov 4, 2026 17:09
Off topic, but
The kanji "飛" (fly) — I just can't write it well no matter what
What's the trick to making it look balanced?
65AnonymousNov 4, 2026 17:13
Re: #63
If you follow the correct stroke order and make a point of writing it big and wide, it starts looking clean
If the stroke order is off, people looking at it will sense something's wrong — balance included

Background and Points of Debate

The “separate style” of writing the right-hand side of “様” as two distinct strokes is closer to the old-style character “樣” used before kanji forms were standardized, and schools are said to have unified on the connected “straight-through style” starting in the 1950s. Some in the thread pointed out that Utsumi likely didn’t invent his own mistake — he may have inherited the older writing style from a teacher born before the war. At the same time, the thread blends two separate issues — “stroke order” and “character shape (joined vs. separated strokes)” — so some of the back-and-forth talks past itself. In fact, kanji like “心” (heart) and “飛” (fly) show similar cases where how a character is written, or its stroke order, differs from person to person due to changes in teaching over the decades or simple misremembering. The split between “it’s fine as long as the reader understands it” and “educational standards should be upheld” ultimately comes down to differing values about what standard to apply, rather than a simple question of right or wrong.

*This article is excerpted and summarized from the 5ch (Geinou/Sports News+) thread “Milk Boy’s Utsumi Confesses ‘Major Incident After Living 40 Years’ Over How to Write ‘様,’ Says ‘I Learned It Wrong’.”

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