30s Unmarried Rate: Nearly Half of Men Still Single — 5ch Floats a ‘Singles Tax’

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A thread introducing data on unmarried rates among people in their 30s appeared on 5ch’s “Nandemo Jikkyo G” board. The numbers showed 47.3% of men and 34.5% of women aged 30-34 unmarried, and 35.6% of men and 23.1% of women aged 35-39 unmarried, sparking comments like “everyone around me is married, this doesn’t match my experience,” calls for a “singles tax” or “childless tax” to ease the burden on households, and pushback from others branding married people the “losers” instead. The thread also cited reports that the unmarried rate among people in their 30s in Seoul, South Korea, has topped 60%, extending the discussion to how the trend isn’t unique to Japan.

What people said

1AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:15
Men aged 30-34: 47.3% unmarried, Women: 34.5% unmarried
Men aged 35-39: 35.6% unmarried, Women: 23.1% unmarried
7AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:18
Guess married people are still the majority after all
9AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:18
Re: #7
Yeah, just look around you, that's how it is
12AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:20
Re: #7
True, but eventually androids will come along and…
8AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:18
Women betray you though
17AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:23
Re: #8
But sucking up (to women) is the only way to actually have kids
11AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:19
Bring in a childless tax right now
No need to repeat other countries' mistakes
14AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:20
Re: #11
Some loner who has no clue what happens if you force broke people to have kids
18AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:24
Looking around at my own circle, most people are married — is this data even accurate?
You're all married too, right?
23AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:24
Re: #18
That checks out if you're a college grad
Might be rare here where it's full of middle school and high school grads
28AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:28
What's the point of a statistic that would change just from me cloning myself into a million copies and getting married?
37AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:40
Re: #28
Go on, try it then
31AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:33
As long as the country holds together until I die, I'm good 🥺
71AnonymousSep 19, 2026 09:11
Re: #31
Doesn't look like it'll last 10 more years, what's your plan?
39AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:43
If you work backwards from getting married, having kids, and supporting them through university, your late 30s seem brutal for it — or is it actually not that bad?
48AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:52
Re: #39
Cash-flow-wise, stretching out your DINK (dual income, no kids) years is clearly easier
Unless you're using cheats like dumping the kids on your parents or getting financial help from them
In that case, having kids early to lower the pregnancy risk is the strongest move
42AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:46
Decent people are already getting married these days
The birth rate among married couples is close to 2.0 after all
The bottom tier dragging things down is the real cause of the falling birthrate
Nothing changes unless you crack the whip on them
45AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:48
Re: #42
Crack the whip on us and we'll drag you down with us, though?
47AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:52
Re: #45
This really shows singles are the enemy of society
We should keep cracking the whip on them
53AnonymousSep 19, 2026 08:58
That said, the unmarried rate for men and women combined in their 30s is still only in the 30% range, so it's not that dire yet
South Korea's combined unmarried rate for people in their 30s is already over 50%


South Korea's 30s unmarried rate: 51.3% nationally… highest in Seoul at 62.8%
https://www.afpbb.com/articles/-/3550417
60AnonymousSep 19, 2026 09:00
Re: #53
South Korea's genuinely heading toward unmarried people becoming the majority of the population
65AnonymousSep 19, 2026 09:03
What do single elderly men even do with their lives, seriously?
74AnonymousSep 19, 2026 09:16
Looking at people around me and slightly older, there are way too many divorces
And on top of that, men have to pay alimony, child support, and split assets with their ex-wives
I think younger generations see that and figure marriage is pointless
85AnonymousSep 19, 2026 09:36
No money → can't get married → so we'll tax you for being single → ???
96AnonymousSep 19, 2026 09:43
Re: #85
Well, you could just make the singles tax kick in only from age 40 or 45
Though you'd need to figure out how to handle divorce and widowhood too
86AnonymousSep 19, 2026 09:36
Guess there's no choice but to bring in a childless tax
89AnonymousSep 19, 2026 09:38
Re: #86
Exactly this
Taking money from singles is dumb — take it from people who get married and don't have kids
90AnonymousSep 19, 2026 09:39
Re: #89
Of course we'll take even more from singles too
102AnonymousSep 19, 2026 09:47
Civil servants and the like are basically all married unless they have serious personality issues or are really unattractive
In the end, it all comes down to money
103AnonymousSep 19, 2026 09:48
Re: #102
Just hand out money and it's solved, isn't it
105AnonymousSep 19, 2026 09:49
If you only tax married-but-childless couples, nobody will bother with legal marriage and everyone will just live as common-law couples instead, so it's pointless
You have to properly tax singles too
113AnonymousSep 19, 2026 09:54
Re: #105
I think it's fine to collect tax from: married-without-kids (with a 3-year grace period from the wedding), singles (age 40+), and households with only Japanese nationality and no children
110AnonymousSep 19, 2026 09:52
Handing out money to people who are already married doesn't accomplish anything, does it
111AnonymousSep 19, 2026 09:52
Re: #110
It does help, since more households are only having one kid
115AnonymousSep 19, 2026 09:56
Re: #111
The birth rate among married couples has been flat at around 2 though
123AnonymousSep 19, 2026 10:01
Re: #115
For the older, larger generations, having 3 or more kids was the norm, yet the number has gradually slipped below 2 — isn't that proof plenty of recent couples are only having one?

Background and Key Points of This Topic

The rising unmarried rate is a statistic that keeps resurfacing in Japan’s debates over its declining birthrate, and the figures cited in the thread are roughly in line with the government’s official population statistics. The “singles tax” and “childless tax” floated in the thread are not policies actually under consideration — they’re hypothetical funding proposals that often get raised on forums, and it’s worth noting they are not government policy. It’s also easy to conflate the claim that “the birth rate among married couples is close to 2.0” with Japan’s overall total fertility rate (around 1.2) — the former applies only to couples who are already married and is a separate metric. The thread also cited reporting that the unmarried rate among people in their 30s in Seoul, South Korea, has passed 60%, fueling discussion of how the falling birthrate and rising unmarried rate aren’t unique to Japan.

*This article is compiled from excerpts and a summary of the 5ch (Nandemo Jikkyo G) thread “[Sad News] The Unmarried Rate for People in Their 30s Is Getting Out of Hand wwwwwwwwwwww.”

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