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Daisuke Nomura (pseudonym, 46), who worked as a systems engineer at a foreign-owned IT company and reached an annual salary of ¥14 million, achieved FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early) at 45 with ¥150 million in assets. However, his fourth-grade daughter’s summer vacation picture diary reportedly read, “Dad just lounges around in the living room all day looking at his phone.” On 5ch, opinions flew back and forth — “What’s the point of FIRE-ing with no goal?” and “If you’ve got a wife and kids, at least do the housework if you’re going to FIRE” — while plenty of others pointed out the sheer formula of how these asset-flex puff pieces keep getting churned out.
“Dad just lounges around in the living room on his phone all day. He only goes for a walk once in a while.”
Daisuke Nomura (46, pseudonym), who lives in a condominium in Tokyo, was left speechless after peeking at the picture diary of his only daughter, 10-year-old Misaki (pseudonym), a fourth-grader. The page, submitted as summer homework, contained an honest, merciless dose of “contempt” for her father.
Daisuke worked grueling hours as a systems engineer at a foreign-owned IT firm, with his annual salary peaking at ¥14 million. Starting in his early 30s, he built up his savings through relentless frugality and investing. At 45, once his managed assets hit ¥150 million, he retired and finally achieved his long-cherished goal of FIRE.
Source: news.yahoo.co.jp / Original article here
What people said
Even among guys, a parent's job can be a reason for bullying too.
What's this guy's deal?
Maybe FIRE itself was the goal.
Don't you mean the 'salty unemployed guys' thread?
Isn't that basically just a stay-at-home dad at that point?
That's not true. Go to central Tokyo and you'll see rich people strolling around in the middle of the day, walking their dogs or relaxing in cafes.
Could just be their day off, though.
Put another way, he only gets looked down on because he stays inside the house — if he relaxed outside instead, wouldn't that fix it?
It's a question of whether she follows her parent's example and aims to become a 'certified NEET' — aka a housewife — or not.
Uh, I'm a married-with-kids FIRE guy myself, though?
Those young guys riding road bikes in the middle of a weekday afternoon are probably this type.
Plenty of jobs have weekdays off, you know.
There's a whole bunch of them riding together in a group, though.
His wife's bringing in ¥6 million, so the household income is effectively ¥12 million — which makes it even more like, 'at least do the housework, dude.'
Well, if it were ¥1 billion, the family couldn't even complain. You need to set the number at something that sounds risky enough that a screwup would actually hurt, or you don't get that on-edge tension.
The pattern where someone FIREs, has no hobbies, feels empty, and goes back to work — that's already been done to death in the 'graduating from FIRE' stories.
Can't be helped if you've got kids — the education gap between Tokyo and the countryside is brutal.
I want to do that too~ I'd love to hop between a different campsite every day.
Background and Key Points
The FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early) movement took off in Japan roughly parallel to its US counterpart in the mid-2010s, but the numbers work differently here. ¥150 million is roughly $1 million at recent exchange rates, and a ¥14 million salary (~$95,000) already put Nomura in a rare bracket for a Japanese salaryman, since IT engineers at foreign firms are among the few groups who can out-earn the seniority-based pay ladders at domestic companies. Japanese financial-media outlets — sites like Gold Online and Diamond Online, referenced obliquely in the thread as “Financial World” — run a recognizable genre of these profiles, always built on a middle-aged pseudonymous man, a suspiciously round asset figure just above ¥100 million, and a domestic complication that undercuts the triumph.
The thread’s actual disagreement wasn’t over whether FIRE is a good idea; it was over whether this story is real at all. A large share of posters treated it as a template — comment 18 recalls an almost identical ¥120 million version, and several flagged the repeated use of “pseudonym” and the formulaic structure as signs of AI-assisted or fabricated content. The minority who did engage with it as genuine split over the wife’s role, since her presumed ¥6 million income was seen as obligating him to housework.
What the piece never mentions is the wife’s own view — the entire moral weight rests on a fourth-grader’s diary and neighborhood judgment, with no input from the person most affected by his day-to-day choices. Readers unfamiliar with this genre may also not realize how disposable these narratives are; the “FIRE burnout, returns to work” follow-up story is itself a stock sequel format in Japanese financial media.
*This article is compiled from excerpts and a summary of the 5ch (Nanademo Jikkyo G) thread “Man Who FIRE’d with ¥150 Million Gets Called Out in Daughter’s Summer Diary: ‘Dad Just Lounges Around at Home’.”
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