A thread on 5ch’s News Speed VIP board features a poster living in a trash house who has promised a 27-year-old woman he met on a dating app that she’ll come over and cook for him. Facing a pile of garbage that would cost 1 million yen to have professionally hauled away, commenters were split on how he should explain the situation to a woman he wants to marry — and whether he should go further into debt just to clean the place up.
What should I do?
Even if you fake it and the relationship moves forward, it'll turn into hell later.
>>7
She's someone I want to marry, so there's no way I can let her see the trash house.
She's someone I want to marry, so there's no way I can let her see the trash house.
>>10
Then you'd better turn her down soon.
Then you'd better turn her down soon.
If there's no solution, what's >>11 even doing in this thread?
>>11
What should I say to turn her down?
What should I say to turn her down?
>>13
Isn't that up to what you want to do?
If you can get it cleaned up in a month and still want her to come, just tell her, "Come over during the September holidays!"
If you're not actually going to clean it up, maybe it's better to just cut ties now.
Isn't that up to what you want to do?
If you can get it cleaned up in a month and still want her to come, just tell her, "Come over during the September holidays!"
If you're not actually going to clean it up, maybe it's better to just cut ties now.
>>17
It takes a full month, so doing it around a job, it'll take a year.
It takes a full month, so doing it around a job, it'll take a year.
>>17
I don't want to cut ties — I want to marry her.
I don't want to cut ties — I want to marry her.
Guess you've got no choice but to call a delivery-health girl and have her clean the place (a home-visit escort service).
>>62
It's the kind of mess that costs a million yen if you hire a cleaning company.
It's the kind of mess that costs a million yen if you hire a cleaning company.
>>68
Why not have her do it until you've spent every last cent?
Why not have her do it until you've spent every last cent?
>>68
Stop with the excuses — why not just cough up the million yen?
Stop with the excuses — why not just cough up the million yen?
>>72
I don't even have money to borrow!
I don't even have money to borrow!
>>78
Then borrow it.
Then borrow it.
>>87
If you take on more debt, you won't be able to get married at all…
If you take on more debt, you won't be able to get married at all…
>>92
What's the debt even from in the first place?
Do you have any plan to pay it back??
What's the debt even from in the first place?
Do you have any plan to pay it back??
>>92
Which would you rather break up over — the trash house or the debt?
Which would you rather break up over — the trash house or the debt?
The girl is 27.
Great at housework and super cute.
We've only been out to eat once, but I want to marry her!
Great at housework and super cute.
We've only been out to eat once, but I want to marry her!
>>89
So basically, "I don't like her enough to clean like my life depends on it or go earn the money"?
So basically, "I don't like her enough to clean like my life depends on it or go earn the money"?
>>89
If she's willing to come to your place after meeting just once, she must really like you.
If she's willing to come to your place after meeting just once, she must really like you.
>>116
Then consolidate your loans or go through debt restructuring or something.
Then consolidate your loans or go through debt restructuring or something.
>>119
I'm not good at that kind of thing.
I'm not good at that kind of thing.
>>124
So "not good at it" is reason enough not to even try?
So "not good at it" is reason enough not to even try?
>>159
Give me a hand here…
Give me a hand here…
Why would anyone front you money for your debt when there's nothing in it for them?
>>121
If she's going to be my wife, my situation becomes her situation too — so there is something in it for her.
If she's going to be my wife, my situation becomes her situation too — so there is something in it for her.
>>123
From her side, that leaves "don't marry him" as the only real option.
From her side, that leaves "don't marry him" as the only real option.
For what it's worth, I do have a girl in mind who might help clean it up.
Lost interest the second I realized the plan was for her to clean up the trash for free.
If he lived nearby I might've considered helping.
If he lived nearby I might've considered helping.
>>152
A guy like this was never planning to pay from the start.
A guy like this was never planning to pay from the start.
>>152
I'll at least treat you to a meal~
I'll at least treat you to a meal~
*This article is compiled and summarized from the 5ch (News Speed VIP) thread “I live in a trash house, but the girl I met on a dating app is coming to cook for me.”
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