“Parasol Guys” OK for Marriage-Hunting Dates? Over 90% of Women Say “Good Impression” or “Fine With It”

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The story

A survey by IBJ, which operates a matchmaking app, found that over 90% of women said men using parasols on dates during a heatwave left either a “good impression” or was something they’d “tolerate.” Meanwhile, 74% of women said their motivation for marriage-hunting itself drops on extremely hot days. On 5ch, reactions to the results were mixed — some posters were positive about “parasol guys,” while others pushed back with comments like “I just can’t stand the look” — revealing a divide in attitudes across generations, regions, and genders.

How do you all feel about men who carry a parasol on a date during a heatwave?

A survey conducted by “IBJ Matching App Lab,” run by IBJ Co., Ltd. (Shinjuku, Tokyo), revealed that over 90% of women responded that a man using a parasol on a date left a “good impression” or was something they’d “tolerate.”

The survey also highlighted a gap in attitudes between men and women when it comes to summer marriage-hunting, with 74% of women saying their motivation drops on extremely hot days.

Source: news.yahoo.co.jp / Original article here

What people said

3AnonymousAug 30, 2026 21:13
I want to ask someone who really knows this stuff —
with the falling birthrate, are small and mid-size sash (aluminum window frame) manufacturers in rural areas going to lose work? Go under?
4AnonymousAug 30, 2026 21:14
Re: #3
If the population shrinks, the work shrinks too —
every industry's going to shrink
5AnonymousAug 30, 2026 21:14
彡⌒ミ
(´・ω・`)☂👍
86AnonymousAug 30, 2026 21:50
Re: #3
Re: #5
No way, no way (AA)
229AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:54
Re: #3
They're already going under
and more will go under from here
89AnonymousAug 30, 2026 21:52
"Tolerate"?
Why's that so condescending lol
135AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:09
Fine if you're a good-looking guy, but
if an old dude like me used a parasol, people would be totally creeped out
142AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:12
Re: #135
An old guy who looks a bit cool and put-together makes a better impression than one dripping with sweat,
and besides, health matters for old guys too
155AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:19
Re: #135
It's a health item just like air conditioning — don't overthink it, just use one
205AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:43
Re: #135
I've seen grandpas using them, so middle-aged guys shouldn't worry about it either
a combo sun/rain umbrella is handy when it rains too
145AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:13
I really can't stand the look of guys with parasols,
so I just go with a hat or a kasa (traditional woven hat)
147AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:15
Re: #145
Here in Osaka city, men with parasols are already normal
I use one a lot myself
157AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:21
Re: #145
Why can't you stand the look?
It's the same as when it's raining, isn't it?
180AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:31
Wait, seriously?! Old guys are allowed to use parasols too?
182AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:32
Re: #180
What's wrong with that?
184AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:32
Re: #180
I see plenty of guys in their 20s using them too —
walking around the city is hot, after all
186AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:33
Re: #180
Do whatever you want… it's so hot nobody's even looking at anyone else anyway
207AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:44
Tanning is completely done, honestly
Top 3 things that are totally finished:
TV, baseball, swimming at the beach, and tanning
216AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:47
Re: #207
Guys with money are usually tanned
237AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:58
Re: #207
Baseball just stopped being on TV as much — the stadiums themselves are absolutely packed
Pro baseball shifted to a business model that makes its money at the ballpark, and revenue keeps hitting record highs

Lotte games used to be empty, but now you can't even get a ticket
222AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:50
Better than ending up with bumpy, rough "manly" skin, right?
228AnonymousAug 30, 2026 22:53
Re: #222
By that point you'll be off everyone's romantic radar anyway, so who's even looking?
297AnonymousAug 30, 2026 23:44
https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/61AGlgYe9nL._AC_SX679_.jpg
308AnonymousAug 30, 2026 23:53
Parasol guys are honestly pretty cool
https://tadaup.jp/8mr4JRt1.jpg
https://tadaup.jp/8FimEyCG.jpg
312AnonymousAug 30, 2026 23:56
Re: #308
That's because he's a model lol
316AnonymousAug 30, 2026 23:59
Re: #312
Office workers (salarymen) using them look pretty comfortable too, nice
https://tadaup.jp/8bnymQ5r.jpg
https://tadaup.jp/8I7UYyIZ.jpg
325AnonymousAug 31, 2026 00:06
Re: #316
A kasa (traditional woven hat) looks cooler
Ronin, ninjas, samurai — real Japanese men have worn kasa since ancient times
337AnonymousAug 31, 2026 00:16
Is this what a typical 5ch old-timer looks like?
https://tadaup.jp/8TSAfCF0.jpg
https://tadaup.jp/8k1GO5xS.jpg
340AnonymousAug 31, 2026 00:20

Everyone keeps going on about pale skin, but judging by surveys of women, tanned guys are actually still pretty popular…
341AnonymousAug 31, 2026 00:21
Re: #340
Of course a tanned hottie beats pasty-white guys like you
342AnonymousAug 31, 2026 00:22
Re: #340
Few Japanese people can tan this nicely
most just turn bright red and end up with sunspots

Background and Talking Points

The topic of “parasol guys” has come up more often in recent years alongside growing awareness of heatwave and UV protection. That said, it’s worth noting this survey was published by IBJ itself, a company that runs a dating/marriage-hunting app — so it comes from a business with a stake in the subject. It’s also worth flagging that “good impression” and “tolerate” are actually two different reactions, even though they’re lumped together as “over 90%.” In the thread, some men expressed discomfort with the idea of carrying a parasol, while women tended to view it more favorably as a heat-countermeasure — highlighting a gender gap in perception. Some posters noted that in urban areas, men using parasols is already unremarkable, pointing to differences by generation and region as well.

*This article is compiled and summarized from the 5ch (News Express+) thread ““Parasol Guys” OK for Marriage-Hunting Dates? Over 90% of Women Say “Good Impression” or “Fine With It”.”

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