M!LK’s Hayato Sano Flashes a Big Smile at an Older Male Fan — 5ch: “Treat Female Fans Any Different and You’ll Get Roasted”

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The story

A post about M!LK’s Hayato Sano greeting an older male fan with a huge smile at a two-shot photo session held to celebrate the release of the new single “LOVE ENG!NE” became a hot topic on 5ch’s Hello! Project board. The fan reportedly hadn’t won a slot himself and ended up attending as a stand-in at his wife’s request. Commenters noted that many photos of young female fans taken at the same event showed a more restrained expression, pointing to an industry-specific dynamic where “idols get slammed if they treat female fans even slightly differently.” This sparked a stream of past examples from other groups — like Johnny’s talent and Dream5 — where idols reportedly let their guard down and showed more genuine expressions around male fans or staff. The thread also touched on opinions both for and against the whole business model of paid meet-and-greet events, and on the fairness of treating fans differently based on gender.

What people said

1AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:02
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The uncle and Sano-kun 🩷
I'm new to "oshi-katsu" (fan-support culture) and hadn't understood how this worked.
2AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:05
Yeah, if he treats a photo with a girl even slightly differently, he gets dragged for it.
4AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:13
Looking at the other photos, the girls really do all get the exact same expression, not even showing their teeth.
5AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:14
It's the same as a female idol being happy when female fans show up to support her.
6AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:15
Johnny's idols get happy when guys show up too, and Matsuoka from SOPHIA gets super excited about it as well.
7AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:17
I don't quite get the situation.
I figured maybe this guy applied on someone else's behalf, then found out only the actual applicant could attend, so he ended up going and taking the photo himself.
But if that's what happened, this line is confusing:

>"I begged him for hours saying he wasn't going to win anyway so just go, but he wouldn't budge — so I played my once-in-a-lifetime favor card and got him to go." ❣
8AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:22
Never mind, figured it out myself — looks like it was posted by someone who appears to be his wife.
9AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:23
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M!LK LOVE ENG!NE Release Commemoration Two-Shot Event, Part 1

Apparently Hayato Sano was all smiles with my kid (so I heard) — I'm melting 🫠🫶 The staff were all so kind too, so I felt totally at ease sending my son into the booth 🫶 love 🫶
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/HR_YRC7aIAESW54.jpg:orig#.jpg
10AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:24
Re: #1
This is supposed to look like he's having fun?
His eyes aren't smiling at all.
36AnonymousSep 13, 2026 16:16
Re: #10
Same thought.
He looks exhausted — not because of the older guy, more like exhausted from the job itself.
11AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:25
Jealous they got to take the photo with a smartphone.
Why does Hello! Project still use those tiny, low-res Cheki (instant film photos)?
14AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:26
Re: #11
Because you guys would just zoom in on the miniskirt outfits.
12AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:25
Guess the consensus in M!LK fandom is that it's totally fine to expose some old guy's face online.
Gross.
17AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:29
Re: #12
Can't really blame anyone since the poster's the one who shared it herself, no?
13AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:26
Re: #1
So in the end, these meet-and-greet events are basically doping the sales figures.
15AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:27
Didn't know male idols ran this kind of business too.
16AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:29
I hear underground male idol events ("men-chika") involve way more physical contact than this.
18AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:33
That's the poster's husband, right?
Guess in the Japanese idol fandom world, wives get a free pass to do whatever.
19AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:33
Back in the day, if a guy showed up at a Johnny's concert, he'd get amazing fan service, and girls used to be jealous about it.
20AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:34
Hello! Project used to have very few female fans too — over ten years ago they were a rare and precious sight.
21AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:34
I heard that when Musume's thing got cancelled because of heavy snow, something with Kanjani8 blew up with replies too.
Guess even in a venue that huge, that kind of thing stands out.
22AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:35
Female fan numbers had already grown by 10 years ago.
The truly rare days were more like 15+ years ago.
23AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:35
Re: #1
Where's the smile in that?? wwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww (the string of w's = laughter, like "lol")
24AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:35
When a member would hype up the crowd yelling "Girls—!"
we'd fake our voices and scream "Kyaa~!" lol
27AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:40
Re: #24
At the recent Summer Hello! event, when Danbara wrapped up an audition announcement with something like "go ahead and apply, okay?",
I saw the fans respond with an enthusiastic "Yes, ma'am!" and thought, yeah, that vibe is still alive today.
28AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:46
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🍼's two-shot session
Fans rotating in about every 6 seconds
Facing 1,800 people like that is brutal 😅😅
Please let him do this at a pace that doesn't wreck him 🥲
29AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:48
Hmm, well, female fans probably show up with their libido written all over their faces,
so maybe deep down he gets worn out by that.
Compared to that, the innocence of the stand-in uncle and the kid probably felt refreshing and heartwarming.
30AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:50
Every single photo with a female fan has a completely dead expression lol
32AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:52
Treating people differently for any reason at all is the worst move,
so keeping a uniformly dead-eyed expression is probably safer and less mentally taxing than trying to hand out equal big smiles to everyone.
43AnonymousSep 13, 2026 16:25
Re: #32
Reminds me of Kitagawa's "iron mask" Cheki photos lol
33AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:52
Well, being well-regarded by the same sex is a status symbol, isn't it — for celebrities anyway.
34AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:56
I heard Akira-kyun from Dream5 was nice to older guys too.
No idea how it is now though.
55AnonymousSep 13, 2026 16:35
Re: #34
Dream5 was parading around outside the a-nation venue, and when I waved,
only Akira-kyun waved back with a huge smile lol
35AnonymousSep 13, 2026 15:58
With that much distance between them, even Kitagawa would smile.
41AnonymousSep 13, 2026 16:24
Does Snow Man do this kind of sales gimmick too?
45AnonymousSep 13, 2026 16:26
Re: #41
Never heard of Johnny's talent doing that.
46AnonymousSep 13, 2026 16:26
Even famous actors do these photo sessions — Johnny's might be the only ones who don't.
47AnonymousSep 13, 2026 16:27
Re: #46
For actors it's not about padding CD sales though lol
50AnonymousSep 13, 2026 16:30
Re: #46
Guess it's padding photobook and calendar sales instead then.
59AnonymousSep 13, 2026 16:47
But isn't this just Sano's usual expression?
In a good way, I mean.
Really makes you think, what a pro.
61AnonymousSep 13, 2026 16:48
Re: #59
You're being way too generous with that read.
It could just as easily look like he's not even into it.

Background and Key Points of This Discussion

Cheki (instant photo) sessions and two-shot meet-and-greets are a bonus-incentive sales scheme deeply embedded in Japan’s idol industry, directly tied to boosting CD and DVD sales — and commenters on the thread pointed out exactly that, calling it “doping sales figures through meet-and-greets.” Because so many of these photos end up posted on social media, any visible difference in how an idol treats different fans is easily read as favoritism, so many idols reportedly try to keep the same expression and demeanor with everyone. In this case, the reaction to a normally low-profile male fan — and someone attending as a stand-in, no less — happened to spread on social media, and was largely received positively as “fair” and “professional.” At the same time, some pushed back, saying his expression looked stiff and like he wasn’t really into it. It’s worth keeping in mind that this whole discussion grew out of a single social media post, and it’s unclear whether this reflects how he normally interacts with fans.

※This article is compiled as an excerpt and summary from the 5ch (Hello! Project board) thread “M!LK’s Hayato Sano Wins Huge Praise for Flashing a Big Smile at an Older Male Otaku Fan at a Two-Shot Photo Session Full of Young Women wwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.”

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