5ch Suggests Hobbies for a 34-Year-Old Single Guy — “Shogi? I’ve Stuck With It 3-4 Years”

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The story

On 5ch’s “Nandemo Jikkyo G” board, a 34-year-old single thread starter posted looking for a new hobby. Suggestions poured in covering everything from shogi, bass guitar, and hair removal treatments to mountain bike downhill riding and travel, though the OP gently shot down suggestions like pickup artistry and gambling. What stood out was how much the thread leaned on posters’ own firsthand experience — one commenter shared having played shogi for three to four years after starting in their 30s, another cited a concrete figure of “13 sessions for 110,000 yen” spent on hair removal, and someone mentioned their company even has a light music club.

What people said

1AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:41
I don't even know what to do with my life
7AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:43
For some reason I'm rate-limited right now, so I can barely post….

A hobby's no fun unless you're the main character in it, in the end
So really, pickup artistry is about the only option left
8AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:43
Re: #7
Is pickup artistry really something where you're the main character though?
10AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:44
Fishing, motorcycles, gambling
Pick whichever one you like
14AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:44
Re: #10
Gambling's a hard no for me
13AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:44
Re: #9
Yeah
That works
I learned the rules a bit back in middle school
33AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:48
Re: #13
I was in a similar spot and started shogi after turning 30 too — I've kept it up for about 3 or 4 years now

There's a decent-sized online shogi population, so if you use an app with a solid matchmaking system you can easily play against people at your own skill level
24AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:46
Nothing beats a pickup trip abroad
Eating local food with local women, and if you're lucky, checking into a hotel afterward
No other hobby is that physical, primal, and fetishistic all at once
26AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:47
Re: #24
Pickup artistry's a no from me
Sorry
32AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:48
Re: #24
You get it, huh
28AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:48
Single in your 30s with money and time to spare, I'm jealous
Beauty stuff is fun — start with hair removal and your interests just keep expanding from there
31AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:48
Re: #28
I'd actually been considering hair removal
My beard's thick and shaving is a pain
29AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:48
This is just another one of those "shoot down every suggestion with bad-faith excuses so you can feel morally superior" late-night whining threads
Engaging with it means you lose
36AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:49
How does someone end up single at 34 anyway?
44AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:51
Re: #36
That's totally normal these days
This country's finished
40AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:50
Re: #31
Better to do it before your beard starts going gray
43AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:50
Re: #40
How much did it end up costing you?
42AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:50
I'm around that age too and I want a hobby
Saunas, horse racing, and eating are basically the only things I enjoy
45AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:51
Re: #42
I feel that, I feel that
46AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:51
Instruments are great
I started bass at 30 and joined my company's light music club
It's ridiculously fun
48AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:51
Re: #46
You play bass too?
Me too 😳
51AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:52
Re: #46
Wild that your company even has a light music club
47AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:51
Cars or motorcycles
Feels great, but costs money and comes with responsibility
57AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:52
Re: #47
Cars cost a fortune to maintain in Tokyo, so if anything it'd be a motorcycle
53AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:52
If you had money, finding a hobby wouldn't even be an issue — so either you're broke or just not that bright
Though someone mentioned golf, so maybe you do have money
55AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:52
Re: #43
13 sessions, around 110,000 yen
59AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:53
Re: #55
That's not even that expensive
Re: #53
Well obviously I'd be happier if it didn't cost money
54AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:52
Get a mountain bike and do downhill runs in the mountains
It's gotta feel better than a motorcycle
60AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:53
Re: #54
A bicycle seems better for your health at least
61AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:54
Re: #48
It really is fun, huh
What bass are you using?
Mine's a YAMAHA BB734
69AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:57
Re: #61
Mine's a white Fender JB-75
I'm a sucker for block inlays 😳
67AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:56
Skin whitening, that's the one 🥺
68AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:56
Re: #67
I wear sunscreen
72AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:59
Re: #68
I use "Anekin" (short for the famous gold-bottle ANESSA sunscreen)
Also the MUJI cleansing oil for sensitive skin
Even though I'm only out in the sun for like 30 minutes a day
🥺☂
79AnonymousSep 21, 2026 23:01
Re: #72
What's "Anekin"?
76AnonymousSep 21, 2026 22:59
Just got back from my first overseas trip in decades and yeah, travel really is great
77AnonymousSep 21, 2026 23:00
Re: #76
Where'd you go?
82AnonymousSep 21, 2026 23:01
Re: #77
Taiwan — super easy to get to. The food was great, and I just went with the flow, catching a pro baseball game and a music concert. Really fun
101AnonymousSep 21, 2026 23:16
Re: #82
I actually lived in Taiwan for work once
Heard pro baseball's gotten pretty popular there lately
91AnonymousSep 21, 2026 23:05
I used to be a hobby-less work machine too, but everything changed once I got close with my niece
Now I'll try all kinds of entertainment if I think it'll make her happy
97AnonymousSep 21, 2026 23:09
Re: #91
Once you've got a kid, going to the toy section actually gets exciting
It's fun imagining how they'll react, and then when you actually give it to them they're genuinely happy about it

Background and Key Points of This Discussion

“Threads that hand a single person a hobby” are a recurring genre on 5ch, one that tends to draw replies from single people in their 20s and 30s with money and time to spare. This time, easy-to-start-solo hobbies like shogi and bass guitar were suggested alongside more costly or physically demanding ones like hair removal and mountain bike downhill riding, and the main point of friction was the OP repeatedly saying they’d prefer something that doesn’t cost money. On the hair removal front, posters traded concrete figures from their own experience, like “13 sessions for 110,000 yen,” which is genuinely useful data. As for shogi, one poster said they started in their 30s and have kept up online matches for three to four years, suggesting that well-developed matchmaking apps have lowered the barrier for self-taught beginners. There were also a few replies that veered into criticizing the OP’s character for turning down suggestions, though that’s treated here as a tangent separate from the thread’s main thread of hobby-hunting.

※This article is excerpted and summarized from the 5ch (“Nandemo Jikkyo G”) thread “A Thread to Give Me (34), a Single Guy, a New Hobby.”

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