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Former AKB48 member Tomomi Itano revealed that her 4-year-old daughter now speaks “basically English” as her primary language after enrolling at an international school. Her comment that the family’s housekeeper is also from overseas — reinforcing the English-first environment — sparked a flurry of technical terms on 5ch like “semilingualism” and “double limited” (a term for children who fail to fully master either language), as opinions split hard over the merits of bilingual education.
Is a solid foundation in your native language a prerequisite for learning a foreign one, or does language acquisition favor whoever starts earliest? The back-and-forth over parenting philosophy kept going.
Tomomi Itano: 4-Year-Old Daughter at International School Is “Basically English-Speaking,” “Even the Housekeeper Is From Overseas” — Reveals Her Worry: “What Should I Do?”
Former AKB48 member and TV personality Tomomi Itano (35) opened up about the environment she’s raising her 4-year-old daughter in.
She appeared on the ABEMA program “Super Nobishiro Time by Kyou, Suki ni Narimashita” (“Today, I Fell in Love”), which streamed on the 26th.
Source: news.yahoo.co.jp / Original article here
What people said
Apparently they live in a place with rent of 1 million yen a month (~$7,000), so money's clearly not an issue.
Even native English speakers end up stuck in service jobs without an education, so she'll need to go to university too — overseas, that is.
Itano's husband isn't anywhere near the majors — he's on the chopping block to get cut.
Basically, don't dodge responsibility by throwing money at it while making excuses like "I'm busy working" instead of studying yourself.
You already know — past you and present you — exactly how much studying sucks, so don't force it on your kid. Show them you're willing to learn first.
So they can send them to study abroad early.
I went to private school starting from elementary, and here I am — 46 years old, still working part-time.
Every household is different.
If you're 46 and working part-time but still getting by just fine, I guess that's also something your parents gave you — not that I'd know.
I had a classmate who was the star student of the whole area through elementary and into junior high, then partway through junior high he stopped going to school and became a shut-in.
Never went to high school either.
Didn't see him for years after that, but past 30 he showed back up in his hometown with a family in tow.
He does something called formwork carpentry — a job I'd never even heard of — and now it's the classic "DQN" (Japanese slang for a rowdy, delinquent-esque type) family lifestyle: everyone's got dyed brown hair, cruising around in a Vellfire minivan on weekends, backyard barbecues — looks like a blast.
No idea what happened along the way, but he went from a shy, introverted type to a total extrovert.
Background and Key Points
Tomomi Itano is a former member of AKB48, the idol group that functioned as a media institution in its own right through the 2000s and 2010s; members who leave routinely move into variety-show and tabloid-covered family life, which is why a throwaway comment about her daughter’s schooling became a thread. International schools in Japan sit outside the Ministry of Education’s standard curriculum, are not free, and often run into the millions of yen annually — a small, largely expatriate-and-elite population attends them, which is why posters fixated on the reported ¥1 million/month rent as proof this is a wealth story as much as a parenting one. “Semilingualism” (半言語, also called “double limited”) is a real term from Japanese bilingual-education research, applied since the 1970s–80s to returnee (kikokushijo) children who lose ground in Japanese without gaining full command of the second language.
The thread didn’t split over whether English is valuable — nearly everyone agreed it is — it split over sequencing: whether a child needs a stable native-language base before a second language can be layered on safely, or whether the window for painless acquisition is simply widest in early childhood and shouldn’t be wasted waiting.
What’s missing from the debate is that “double limited” outcomes are associated with weak input in *both* languages, not simply with early exposure to a second one — a wealthy, English-fluent household with an engaged parent is not the at-risk profile the term was coined to describe. Also unmentioned: international-school diplomas often don’t map cleanly onto Japan’s own university-entrance system, which matters far more than dinner-table fluency if the family ever wants a Japan-based fallback.
*This article is an excerpt and summary from a 5ch (Entertainment & Sports News+) thread titled [Entertainment] Tomomi Itano: 4-Year-Old Daughter at International School Is “Basically English-Speaking,” “The Housekeeper Is From Overseas Too, So Our Daughter Is Becoming English-First”.
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