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The story
A thread titled “Men should understand the fear of unprotected creampies” ignited a head-on clash between men and women on 5ch. The original poster argued that the risk of unwanted pregnancy isn’t something only women have to bear — men who finish inside without protection should feel anxious about it too. In response, a wave of pushback followed: “The fear of being cuckolded into raising someone else’s kid is way bigger,” and “If you’re not trying to get pregnant, going in raw is on both of you.” The discussion spiraled into why people skip contraception and whether partners actually feel free to say no, with no consensus ever reached on who should really be responsible for birth control.
What people said
Even if we go 'yeah that sounds rough,' the fear's still sitting there either way.
it's basically the same logic as workers resenting management.
There's a lot of guys like this who dodge responsibility.
In that case, isn't it the woman's fault for not making it clear she wanted it in her backdoor instead?
Nobody cares about a virgin's fantasy.
Guys like that tend to get called limp dicks.
I never said I let it happen.
Specifically, how is that "being a wimp"?
Who you date is your own call.
Then why don't you wear one?
Fix that first.
When did who go off with someone? That's just you making stuff up, right?
Are you dumb or something?
Even the strict ones — book a regular hotel instead of a love hotel, say "I don't have a condom," and they'll reluctantly let you.
Don't mistake that for being normal.
Plenty of girls hate it but can't bring themselves to say no.
Well, I've never made anyone feel bad about it.
The real thing's loose enough to kill the mood as it is — no way I'm putting a condom on top of that.
Honestly, same — I got a girl I was messaging on Instagram pregnant and then ghosted her, so yeah, that tracks.
Yeah, guys like this scumbag are out there.
I'd love for the kid to meet him a few years down the line
and go "this is your real daddy."
Amateur girls have it made — they can just lie there and still feel like they're "working."
Are there really girls like that? Wouldn't know.
Are you even for real, or just talking out of your depth? lol ("エアプ" — slang for someone who talks like they have experience but clearly doesn't)
By the way, I'm a guy.
Lol, got you.
Background and Key Points of This Debate
Arguments over who’s responsible for contraception are a recurring staple on 5ch, and this thread was no different, weighing “the pregnancy risk women bear” against “the risk of being cuckolded or dragged into custody disputes that men bear.” That said, everything raised in the thread amounts to anonymous gut feelings and personal dating anecdotes — no statistics or data on pregnancy rates or actual condom use ever showed up. The question of consent — the power dynamics behind who refuses protection and who feels unable to — is arguably the real issue here, but the thread barely dug into it, ending instead in a stalemate over “who’s got it worse.” Readers should keep in mind this is an exchange of emotional arguments, not an objective survey.
※This article is an excerpt and summary of the 5ch (Nandemo Jikkyo G) thread “Woman: “Men Should Understand the Fear of Unprotected Creampies”.”
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