73-Year-Old Dad Balks at Surrendering His License—’Don’t Treat Me Like an Old Man’—Finally Caves After Six Months of Pleading

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A personal account reported by the money-focused outlet “THE GOLD ONLINE,” about a son who pressed his 73-year-old father to surrender his driver’s license, became a hot topic on 5ch’s Nandemo Jikkyo G (“Anything Goes Live”) board. According to the story, the father resisted for six months, insisting “My eyes and ears are still sharp and my reflexes haven’t slowed down—don’t treat me like an old man,” but after being shown calculations of upkeep costs and hearing pleas from his grandchild, he eventually caved and voluntarily surrendered his license. On the thread, comments backing the son’s handling (“better than dragging someone else into an accident”) stood alongside pushback (“judging by age alone is harsh,” “everyone’s different”) and doubts about whether the cognitive function test given at license renewal actually works. Many also flagged inconsistencies in the article itself—like the detail that the father kept his Land Cruiser even after surrendering his license.

“If you end up causing an accident, it’ll be too late to fix. The upkeep costs aren’t exactly cheap either, so why not go ahead and turn in your license?”

When Toshinori made this suggestion, Saburo turned red with anger. “My eyes and ears are still sharp, and my reflexes haven’t slowed down one bit! Don’t treat me like an old man,” his father insisted. Toshinori wouldn’t budge either: “You can keep the car right where it is—just stop driving it.” But Saburo brushed this off: “What good is a car that never gets driven? A car’s only worth something if you can actually drive it.”

For the next six months, Toshinori kept up the persuasion every time he visited his parents’ house. He showed his father a breakdown of the upkeep costs, and got his grandchild to chip in too—”Grandpa, your driving worries me, please stop”—with the whole family working on him together. In the end, Saburo gave in, muttering “Fine, do whatever you want” as a parting shot, and went down to the police station to voluntarily surrender his license. Toshinori breathed a deep sigh of relief: “Now I don’t have to worry about him hurting someone else.”

Source: news.yahoo.co.jp / Original article here

What people said

4AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:44
Better than putting someone else through hell, I guess.
19AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:51
Re: #4
Seriously, this.
Every single person who's put someone else through hell thought they themselves were fine.
5AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:45
Sure, there's individual variation, but 73 these days feels like it should still be totally fine.
8AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:45
Guy was driving a Land Cruiser, so he must really love cars.

Can't tell from the article, but if his cognitive function really wasn't an issue, it's harsh to make him give it up on age alone.
10AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:47
Aging varies a lot from person to person.
You shouldn't just write someone off based on age alone.
11AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:47
I get the worry, but isn't this a bit much? Though if 'Grandpa's driving scares me' is genuinely true, then it's a fair call.
13AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:48
Just buy him a racing wheel controller and let him play Forza 6 instead.
15AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:49
Didn't know GOLD ONLINE wrote stuff like this lmao
16AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:49
He surrendered his license but kept the Land Cruiser? This 'essay' is way too sloppily written.
17AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:49
Left Dad to presumably struggle through an inconvenient life for a whole month.
20AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:51
Just buy him an e-bike or something.
21AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:51
It's clearly made up—even where he lives is vague.
Put a little more detail into it, come on.
22AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:51
For a 73-year-old, just get him a car loaded with safety features.
Even just pedal mix-up prevention alone makes a huge difference.
25AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:51
Just gift him a full racing-wheel rig and a PS5.
26AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:52
Wait, I thought the dad stabbed the son to death or something.
27AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:52
Lived over 70 years and has nothing in his life besides cars… lol
28AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:52
The reason the license-surrender push fizzled out before, as I understand it, is that quite a few elderly people kept driving even after surrendering their license and caused accidents anyway. Since insurance can cover things even without surrendering, the conclusion ended up being that, statistically, not surrendering—even after an accident—works out better.
29AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:53
If he'd compromised there, it might've ended in a tragic accident.
30AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:53
At this point, taking away the license just means someone else has to pick up the slack.
33AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:55
A textbook example of how 90% of media stories are pointless to even read.
34AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:55
A curveball of a topic for GOLD ONLINE.
35AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:56
Plenty of people's lives get turned into hell because of selfish old folks.
No matter how capable you are, you're not allowed to get a license before age 18.
By the same logic, no matter how capable you are, once you're past 70 you shouldn't be allowed to drive anymore.
It's really that simple.
36AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:56
What are elderly people living alone actually supposed to do, though?
It's not like they can just move to the city.
37AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:57
Instead of a Land Cruiser, just give him the smallest kei car possible—or worst case, a moped—to minimize the damage.
A 73-year-old driving something that huge is pushing it, surely.
38AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:57
People on Yahoo comments leaving tons of replies to what's clearly an AI-written essay is just dumb.
39AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:58
He should just drive something like a 7-Eleven delivery van.
40AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:59
Has a causal link with the license surrender even been proven?
41AnonymousOct 10, 2026 14:59
Not being able to drive anymore is fine in itself—the real problem is nobody helped him find another reason to live.
44AnonymousOct 10, 2026 15:01
I ride a motorcycle too, and honestly the day I give up riding will probably be the day I die.
45AnonymousOct 10, 2026 15:02
It's obviously made up, but GOLD ONLINE articles have this charm where there's always so much to pick apart.
49AnonymousOct 10, 2026 15:05
Voluntary surrender is kind of pointless, honestly.
The people who can rationally judge 'my abilities have declined with age, I should surrender my license' are the ones who are actually fine.
It's the guys shouting 'I haven't declined at all! I'm not surrendering anything!' who are the dangerous ones—those are exactly the ones who should have their license taken away.
58AnonymousOct 10, 2026 15:09
Re: #49
Yeah, the thing is the cognitive test at renewal time doesn't actually mean anything.
67AnonymousOct 10, 2026 15:13
That's exactly the age when guys are happily driving their grandkids around.
Guess a lifelong single person wouldn't get that.
75AnonymousOct 10, 2026 15:20
Re: #67
But it was that very grandkid who told him to stop.
77AnonymousOct 10, 2026 15:23
Unless there's dementia or some serious decline visible, cases these days where family pushes a 73-year-old to surrender their license are pretty rare, I'd think.
80AnonymousOct 10, 2026 15:26
Re: #77
Well, it's fiction, so.
87AnonymousOct 10, 2026 15:32
Fair point that there's individual variation—so why not make everyone take an actual driving test at the test center once a year or every six months?
Not like the elderly-driver courses at driving schools, but a real test where failing means mandatory surrender.
Though give them a few retry chances.
88AnonymousOct 10, 2026 15:33
Re: #87
Those tests go easy on old folks—if all you do is wobble a bit while driving, you'll pass with room to spare.
91AnonymousOct 10, 2026 15:35
Re: #87
That scares me—feels like it's going to produce a fatality eventually.

Background and Key Points of This Topic

The “voluntary surrender” system for elderly drivers’ licenses carries no legal force—family members or police cannot confiscate a license on the basis of age alone. Even under the revised Road Traffic Act of 2022, the mandatory practical driving test applies only to drivers 75 or older with a certain violation history; 73 itself is not, under current rules, an age at which surrender can be forced. The thread split between those praising the son’s decision as a sound family call to prevent an accident, and those pushing back with “don’t judge by age alone when everyone’s different”—with several commenters also questioning whether the cognitive function test given at license renewal actually measures real driving ability. Meanwhile, since the original piece is a personal-account article from THE GOLD ONLINE, an asset-management-focused outlet, and contains inconsistencies—such as the father keeping his large SUV even after surrendering his license—many replies suspected it was fiction or AI-generated; however, the article itself doesn’t clarify how it was actually written, so this can’t be confirmed.

*This article is compiled from excerpts and a summary of the 5ch (Nandemo Jikkyo G) thread “The Son Who Took the Car Away From His 73-Year-Old Father Who Wouldn’t Give Up His License—The 〈Hellscape〉 He Saw One Month After the Surrender.”

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