Wants a Girlfriend but His Only Contact With Girls Is Driving School — 5ch: ‘Is It Okay to Hit On Her?’

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A college student who wants a girlfriend but has no way to meet girls during summer break except at driving school posted on 5ch. Amid a barrage of jabs like “What are you even trying to do with no income?” and “Not gonna happen unless you’re good-looking,” he pondered aloud whether it would be okay to talk to someone at the driving school — and the thread unexpectedly blew up.

1Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:13:03.92ID:ID:OUhlh3YX0
So what do you guys think?
BTW I'm a college student
15Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:23:08.55ID:ywOPr70n0
What are you even trying to do?
18Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:24:15.92ID:OUhlh3YX0
>>15
For starters, I just want to get into a one-on-one situation with a girl.
I'll take it from there myself, ,
22Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:25:34.15ID:ywOPr70n0
>>18
You don't even have any income.
What are you trying to do?
24Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:25:55.68ID:ywOPr70n0
>>23
>>18
You don't even have any income.
What are you trying to do?
23Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:25:34.51ID:OUhlh3YX0
There are a lot of cute girls sitting alone at driving school.
The waiting room or cafeteria would be too much, but maybe I'll give it a shot tomorrow during the classroom lesson.
26Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:26:38.62ID:OUhlh3YX0
>>22
I'm a student, so when you bring up "income" it honestly doesn't register with me
I do get an allowance, and worst case my parents will cover something like a trip
29Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:27:38.99ID:ywOPr70n0
>>26
You're basically your parents' pet, aren't you?
You don't have any authority of your own,
none at all
32Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:28:26.77ID:OUhlh3YX0
>>28
I did have one, up until this spring, so…
34Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:29:06.00ID:ywOPr70n0
>>32
Don't front like that, it's pathetic.
36Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:29:32.89ID:ywOPr70n0
>>32
Did she dump you?
33Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:28:49.56ID:55F679tN0
If it were some old guy that'd be creepy, but for a student, hitting on someone in a situation like that is pretty common.
41Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:30:44.44ID:OUhlh3YX0
>>33
Guess that's true, huh?
But seriously, nobody's actually talking to anybody there — it's shocking, given how many students are around
35Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:29:06.04ID:OUhlh3YX0
>>29
I'm an only child, no curfew, nobody says a word even if I roll in the next morning — total freedom
38Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:30:17.88ID:ywOPr70n0
>>35
You're gonna get arrested for violating the public nuisance ordinance.
58Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:35:12.79ID:OUhlh3YX0
You probably won't believe me, but I actually had plans to hang out last week with a girl my age from this very board, and then she just went silent on me. Pretty shocked.
64Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:40:56.19ID:UMThs+/K0
>>58
Don't sweat it
As a fellow female college student, let me apologize on her behalf
61Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:40:00.09ID:Ackz3GCN0
If you're a college student and you want a girlfriend, drop the shame and just act.
63Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:40:55.83ID:OUhlh3YX0
>>61
So… is it okay if I talk to her at driving school, ,
65Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:41:19.23ID:OUhlh3YX0
>>64
It's not THAT girl, right? That'd be scary lol
71Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:43:24.32ID:UMThs+/K0
>>65
What year are you in college again?
66Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:41:29.29ID:Ackz3GCN0
>>63
Go for it
Once you get your license you'll never see her again anyway
70Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:42:44.00ID:OUhlh3YX0
>>66
Yeah, true — I deliberately picked a school away from my hometown, so the damage is minimal
…so what's a natural way to open with her?
74Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:47:33.62ID:U77HqVVU0
Unless you're good-looking or good at talking, hitting on her is just gonna end awkwardly.
75Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:49:33.45ID:OUhlh3YX0
>>74
I think my face is decent enough, but that driving school seems to have a lot of good-looking guys, so I might just blend into the background
As for talking skills, well… not really, no. Not that I'm bad at socializing exactly, but
76Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:50:21.92ID:Jv6AMCSn0
Not gonna happen unless you're handsome. "Good-looking" (lol)
81Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:52:10.22ID:OUhlh3YX0
>>76
I've got strong features — I've actually been mistaken for a foreigner once
78Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:50:40.25ID:JHlQGcDr0
If you're a college student with zero contact with girls, that's not gonna change no matter where you go.
83Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:53:23.48ID:OUhlh3YX0
>>78
It's not that I have zero contact with girls, it's just that it never turns into anything like actually dating
79Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:51:18.62ID:Jv6AMCSn0
Double eyelids, big round eyes
Love-at-first-sight level
82Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:52:51.53ID:OUhlh3YX0
>>79
Yeah, seriously double eyelids and big round eyes! People tell me my eyes are pretty all the time — my eyes are the one thing I'm genuinely confident about
80Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:52:09.94ID:J0yub5Q00
It's creepy, but it's not a crime, so…
84Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:53:50.95ID:OUhlh3YX0
>>80
The moment she thinks I'm creepy, my mental health is done for
85Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:54:17.55ID:JHlQGcDr0
>>83
If you can't make it happen in a college environment, you're just not gonna make it happen
87Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 22:55:30.44ID:OUhlh3YX0
>>85
Even as a college student, isn't it really just your department, clubs, and part-time job?
And since I've been striking out at all of those, this is where I've ended up
94Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 23:01:07.75ID:7/CulCkf0
Just get a part-time job
You'll land one in no time
97Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 23:03:36.94ID:OUhlh3YX0
>>94
I've worked 5 or 6 part-time jobs so far and never once seen a cute girl my age who seemed like dating material, ,
Also, if the job's too busy, romance is the last thing on your mind
So what kind of part-time job should I even get?
98Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 23:03:55.66ID:ZosbjoTqd
>>94
I'm 34, recently got back into the workforce after being a NEET, and started a part-time job — still no girlfriend
96Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 23:02:43.97ID:3E1cusRN0
Have you ever kept a beetle as a pet? That's the one and only answer.
99Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 23:03:57.17ID:OUhlh3YX0
>>96
What's that supposed to mean? lol
102Anonymous2026/08/25(火) 23:08:09.68ID:3E1cusRN0
>>99 Just take it easy, Mr. Boy

This article is excerpted and summarized from the 5ch (nanG) thread “I really want a girlfriend, but during summer break the only place I have any contact with girls is driving school… is it okay to talk to her?.”

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